My husband told me two days before our last child of 5 was graduating..that he had a affair with my best friend......but before he told me ..we brought her into our home to live for 3 years ..I took care of her child..and cleaned up after her..she was a slob..I felt sorry for the child..but she also had been my friend for 30 years....she and her boyfriend spent the night with us on our wedding night at a resort in town here....then he told me I was no longer his obligation..we had been married for 29 years...I always have been a good wife ..taking care of raising children and doing whatever I could so he could have his business...he did what he wanted and I stayed home to be a good wife and mother ..currently one of my children is studing to be a doctor..so it shows I did a good job..I'm sure...but in all my work..I am now left with no formal education..and my life I spent with someone is over..all those years wasted ..to be left...MY story is no different than alot of people I am sure ..but I can't support myself ...and he abondoned me..I am trying to work ..but who wants a housewife of 29 years in the boardroom..I am not dumb..just uneducated in anyway that makes a difference in todays world...will someone please help me...I am lost...